The Natural Self

The natural self is who we are by nature, in our truest, most unprogrammed form. Who we would be if we had not been misshapen by traumatization and artificial influences. Who we would be if we had not been misled to hold reality-creating beliefs in our mind that generate experiences of system-enslavement and separation from our own hearts, life source, loved ones. The purpose of LionSong is to support our natural selves and their gifts, whatever they are, to come into this world.

Although the natural self rarely comes into this world unchallenged, it can in fact be recovered and encouraged to embody in our here and now circumstances. And when it does sprout, grow and bloom here, that natural self is a benefit to all of us, bringing riches from the inner wild, and gifts that have never been here before.

The natural self, like a child, needs to play in a supportive, loving setting in order to develop presence in this world.

Children learn and become who they are through play. Playing means exploring something for its own sake, following and allowing expression of what emerges naturally in you, in real time, just because it’s compelling.

Even though we’re “all grown up now” according to the world, in reality many of us are underdeveloped, and still need to play some more to become who we are meant to be, more fully.

As adults we often need help getting back into play mode. Process play frames (creative frames, such as the invitations I share on this site) can help us get into a playful mindset and get flowing again.

When we play with process (instead of “making art” in a more goal-oriented way), we are often able to allow flow with an attitude of curiosity and openness.

We learn to refrain from overly directing. Since structure provides a safe container for creative flow, process play depends on setting creative constraints that feel just right for us, and then letting go of the reins. It is then that we can experience the joy of flow, a sign that we are in the learning, growing zone.

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Thumbnail image reverently appropriated from Snow White and the Seven Dwarves, illustrated by Nancy Ekholm Burkert